Do you ever wonder what happens in a persons mind that makes them crave change? For the right reason? Or are they FAKING? I think about it all the time. Why didn't they like how they were the minute before? Their look? Their attitude? I think that everyone should be themselves. Not the person that they see in a magazine or on TV.
I think high school has changed people. I think that people try finding themselves and succeed and fail time and time again. Everyone wants to be popular..and NOTICED. I think that is the key word. Everyone tries to be the different or carbon copies but all to be NOTICED. Maybe its the nerd that you want to be noticed by or the football player. Without trying, many people have acted out and has changed quite often.
Maybe its your "best friend" that changed. Yup. I guess she wanted to be in the in crowd. I guess she wanted to be NOTICED. I know she did. She still does. We teenage girls CRAVE it and that's what we live off of. Its like a second oxygen. That is exactly what happened to me. Make the right decisions princesses, please. I hope she is. I'm just sharing my story with you..I don't really understand why people need to drink alcohol in high school to be cool. It doesn't make sense to me that you have to be drunk at a party to get guys. Even though she is 16 and hasn't kissed anyone doesn't mean she needs to do it this way..She doesn't need it. I've gotten guys. Maybe not the right ones for me, but I did not need alcohol to prove my "worthiness" or I didn't crave attention. I was myself .I don't need alcohol for guys to like me and neither do any of you. If a guy tells you that you need to be drunk just for him to hook up with you, drop him. He isn't worth it and you could do better. Do not change for anyone because there is someone who will treat you right. Friends or boyfriends shouldn't pressure you in to things you don't want to do to be with them and have a good time. Be your own person. If drinking is your thing, have fun, but don't pressure people into things they don't feel comfortable doing.
I am not here to advocate my morals and what I think is right by any means. I just want all you princesses out there to realize that no one needs to tell you that you are wrong when you are proud of who you are.
Fake friends or real ones? If you see a friend changing, let them do so, protect them, support them if you agree, drift away if you feel you should, do what you feel comfortable doing and be your own person
Stay beautiful princess,
xox -princessspeaking
